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Recipients of altruism likely to pass it on
By Heather J. Smith

What goes around comes around.

This maxim can be either a good or a bad thing, depending on what you send around.

Some people argue that all human action is motivated by selfishness, an evolutionary need to get ahead. Yet, others, like Julie Juola Exline, head of the research group The Self as a Conduit of Love at Case Western Reserve University, believe that altruistic behaviors directed toward loved ones, strangers and even enemies make them behave altruistically toward others.

In order to test the effect altruistic acts have on people, Juola Exline and her colleagues used a few different tactics.

A preliminary study asked undergraduate students at Case Western Reserve University to think about two different situations in which they received acts of kindness: a time when the kindness was expected because of a close relationship to the giver, and a time when the kindness was unexpected because the giver was a stranger or an enemy.

“We found that, generally, people want to help others that are nice to them and are in their families,” Juola Exline said. “But there seemed to be a slight tendency for people in that surprising condition, like ‘got help from a stranger’ or something, to be a little more into the idea of helping a stranger or an enemy.”

However, based on these preliminary findings, the results from the second study were not what researchers expected.

In this latter study, undergraduates were given $5 and split into three groups that were asked to recall different experiences. One group, which served as the control, was asked to recall their walk across campus. Another group recalled an act of kindness from a close friend or family member, and the last group recalled times when they received an act of kindness from a stranger or an enemy.

After the people recalled those particular instances, they were then given a choice of charities, to which they could donate $0 to $5 of the money they had been given. Contrary to what researchers predicted, those in the expected-kindness group gave more than the people in the unexpected-kindness group.

“What seemed to happen was, anything that people thought as part of their stories that brought up any kind of negative emotions, like guilt or obligation or shame, inhibited their giving,” said Juola Exline.

She added that those who felt they had already repaid their act of unexpected kindness had less motivation to donate.

Whether or not people have received kindness in the past  plays a huge role in determining whether or not they will behave kindly toward others in the future, she said.

“If you want people to do something like give to a charity, you want them to be in a really good mood,” Juola Exline said. “You don’t want to do anything that might make them feel bad or guilty, because reflecting on undeserved kindnesses sometimes makes people feel very grateful, but sometimes it makes them feel guilty.”

Heather J. Smith is book editor of Science & Theology News.


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Telling the stories of love
By Stephen G. Post

Love is the primary virtue, and by “love,” I typically mean a warmth, constancy and nurturance that has its place in human experience as a reflection of the divine. Forgiveness, compassion and gratitude are expressions of love, like spokes on a wheel. 

The particular expression love takes depends on each person’s situation. In situations of suffering, compassion is the fitting expression of love, and in situations of meaningful apology, forgiveness is fitting. While Julie Juola Exline’s study is the only one funded by The Institute for Research on Unlimited Love that deals solely with forgiveness, we see the theme as a subtext in a number of our projects. 

Love takes so many forms, including attentive listening, celebration, and even the confrontation of destructive and self-destructive behavior. All of these expressions have as their core essence love, and for this reason, St. Paul wrote, “and the greatest of these is love.”

The narrative and science of unlimited love is so pervasive, in fact, that I’ve recently decided to write a popular book about it. To that end, I have a request for Science & Theology News readers: If you have a story about how unselfish acts personally rewarded you, I would like to hear it. The testimonials should describe these acts, no matter how small. Maybe it just felt good to do good, or maybe you have some special insight into your act. There is a possibility that my co-author and I will want to incorporate your story into our book, so please indicate if you would prefer anonymity or not. Also, please include your name and e-mail address so we can respond. Stories should be 500 words at most. E-mail your stories to sgp2@case.edu. Thanks!

Stephen G. Post is president of The Institute for Research on Unlimited Love at Case Western Reserve University in Cleveland.

 
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