What goes around comes around.
This maxim can be either a good or a bad thing, depending on what you send around.
Some people argue that all human action is motivated by selfishness,
an evolutionary need to get ahead. Yet, others, like Julie Juola
Exline, head of the research group The Self as a Conduit of Love at
Case Western Reserve University, believe that altruistic behaviors
directed toward loved ones, strangers and even enemies make them behave
altruistically toward others.
In order to test the effect altruistic acts have on people, Juola Exline and her colleagues used a few different tactics.
A preliminary study asked undergraduate students at Case Western
Reserve University to think about two different situations in which
they received acts of kindness: a time when the kindness was expected
because of a close relationship to the giver, and a time when the
kindness was unexpected because the giver was a stranger or an enemy.
“We found that, generally, people want to help others that are nice
to them and are in their families,” Juola Exline said. “But there
seemed to be a slight tendency for people in that surprising condition,
like ‘got help from a stranger’ or something, to be a little more into
the idea of helping a stranger or an enemy.”
However, based on these preliminary findings, the results from the second study were not what researchers expected.
In this latter study, undergraduates were given $5 and split into
three groups that were asked to recall different experiences. One
group, which served as the control, was asked to recall their walk
across campus. Another group recalled an act of kindness from a close
friend or family member, and the last group recalled times when they
received an act of kindness from a stranger or an enemy.
After the people recalled those particular instances, they were then
given a choice of charities, to which they could donate $0 to $5 of the
money they had been given. Contrary to what researchers predicted,
those in the expected-kindness group gave more than the people in the
unexpected-kindness group.
“What seemed to happen was, anything that people thought as part of
their stories that brought up any kind of negative emotions, like guilt
or obligation or shame, inhibited their giving,” said Juola Exline.
She added that those who felt they had already repaid their act of unexpected kindness had less motivation to donate.
Whether or not people have received kindness in the past plays a
huge role in determining whether or not they will behave kindly toward
others in the future, she said.
“If you want people to do something like give to a charity, you want
them to be in a really good mood,” Juola Exline said. “You don’t want
to do anything that might make them feel bad or guilty, because
reflecting on undeserved kindnesses sometimes makes people feel very
grateful, but sometimes it makes them feel guilty.”
Heather J. Smith is book editor of Science & Theology News.
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